For AASECT participants:

Couples Coaching Program

A 5-Session Coaching Experience for Couples Ready to Move Beyond Misunderstanding, Overwhelm, and Disconnection

Learn how to work with your differences - not against them - using the Relational Integrity Model.

The Problem: 

You care about each other, but something keeps happening.

✅ conversations escalate or shut down

✅ one of you feels "too much" or "not enough"

✅ the other feels overwhelmed, confused, or blamed

✅ repair feels hard - or impossible

👉 You are not the problem.
👉 Your nervous systems are out of sync - and your patterns are protecting something important.

Reframe:

Most couples are taught to:  

✅ Communicate better

✅ Compromise more

✅ "Fix behavior"

But that doesn't work when:

✅ Identity is being misread

✅ Capacity is overwhelmed

✅ Care isn't landing

✅ Repair happens too fast or too late

That's where relational integrity comes in.

What is Relational Integrity?

✅ You don't abandon yourself to keep the relationship 

✅ You don't override your partner to stabilize it

✅ You stay accountable to impact - while honoring limits

It's not about sameness.  It's about coordination.

What You'll Learn:

Through this 5- or 7-session experience, you'll learn how to:

✅ Recognize what's actually happening underneath conflict

✅ Understand each other's regulation patterns

✅ Stay connected without overwhelming each other

✅ Repair without shame or shutdown

✅ Build rhythm coordination that actually works for both of you

How it Works:

Session 1: Relationship Mapping

We assess your relationship across four domains:

✅ Identity protection

✅ Internal coherence

✅ Relational care

✅ Accountability

You'll receive a personal roadmap for your relationship.

Weeks 2-5: Build skills that actually work

Each week includes a training + live coaching session:

✅ Week 2: Identity Protection

Reduce misinterpretation and stop pathologizing each other.

✅ Week 3: Internal Coherence

Understand overwhelm, pacing, and clarity.

✅ Week 4: Relational Care

Learn how connection actually lands for each of you.

✅ Week 5: Accountability & Repair

Repair without shame, blame, or collapse.

What's Included: 

• 5 coaching sessions 
• 4 in-depth training modules
• Personalized relationship plan
• Relational Integrity Card Deck
• Practical tools for real-life application

Who is this for?   Couples who...

✅ Feel stuck in the same patterns

✅ Want to understand - not fix - each other

✅ Experience differences in emotional, sensory, or communication styles

✅ Want a structured, affirming approach to growth 

Who is this not for:   

This is not therapy and not a fit for:

✅ Active crises or safety concerns

✅ Ongoing abuse

✅ Severe untreated mental health conditions

Pricing Section:

Core Experience — $847 ⭐ Most Popular

Full coaching experience + card deck

Premium Intensive — $1,497

For couples who want deeper support and guidance

You don’t need to:

• communicate perfectly

• feel the same way

• move at the same pace

You just need a way to work together without losing yourselves.

👉 This is how you get there.

Disclaimer: Couples coaching consists of educational and reflective tools. It is not therapy, clinical supervision, diagnosis, or a substitute for mental health care.  Use of the deck is intended to support relational awareness, coherence, and ethical engagement.